Archive for July, 2007

What To Do?

July 5, 2007

Court ruling aside, can anyone enlighten me on what actually ought to be done with regards to Ms Joy? It’s been nine years since she committed apostasy (some may argue with my choice of using the word ‘commit’ but I’m sticking to it) and throughout that time, hasn’t anyone tried to win her back in embracing Islam? Or none have tried? Or tried, but sucked at it? Assuming the last one, is it ok for us fellow Muslims to just let her be?

I’m asking this because I don’t know the answer and none of the articles that I read (including the past post on apostasy) actually prescribe or suggest anything on what to do in the event that the apostate does not want to return to Islam. They just said don’t kill them (in which I agree to some extent, still have a bit of doubt on that. Hey, don’t gimme that look!). While I agree with the Mufti’s perspective (we should focus more on prevention rather than penalty), even he is silent on what to do now.

Anyone?

The Dentist

July 4, 2007

You know what’s scarier than a visit to meet the Supervisors? A visit to the dentist!! I’m seeing one in approximately.. uh, 20 minutes, and I tell ya, I’m scared as hell!

Hope it won’t be that bad. Just sit there and think happy thoughts! la la laa…

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Roughly 3 hours later..

Ohh, lihatlah dunia.. Gigi dan gusi ku yang indah.. Ooh, hello there! Or should I say H.E.L.L.L.O.O.. T.H.E..R.E!!! *Emphasis was made on purpose to accentuate blogger’s new gums and teeth*

I’m not nuts (though my research is slowly causing me to climb up the wall) but going to the dentist is always, always dreaded by yours truly. Yessir. I could endure 15 hours of labour, with no epidural I might add, and yet, a due visit to the dentist would put me in a fetal position right at the corner of a room. Maybe it’s due to a bad childhood memory of a tooth extraction.. or that creepy odour the dentist office always has.. or it could be that one time I saw that wretched movie ‘The Dentist’. Dammit. Should never have watched it.

But hey, all’s done for the day. And I must say, my scaling just now wasn’t that bad at all! My dentist was the handsomest oral care professional I have ever seen (ok, so he’s the most handsome just because Hubby is not a dentist. Heh). Made me segan to show him my damages. After examining my teeth, checking what I have or don’t have, he swirled on his chair, snatched the tools and dengan ‘rocker’ nya said, “All right. Let’s do it!”. He said it with so much enthusiasm I would’ve laughed if only I wasn’t too spooked. Unfortunately (or should I say, fortunately?), the second he placed the scaler on my first tooth, he was called for some complicated root canal that he had to push me to be ‘done’ by his hygienist. (NHS babe. This ain’t an expensive private practise, so pushing around unimportant teeth matter ain’t a big deal, I guess). The lady was really good. I didn’t feel that ngilu or painful at all. Just a few seconds of chair gripping was all I did. She even put on some music, that’s a first for me. When all was done, the actor-resembling dentist wants me to come over in two weeks to checkup on me my teeth. Hmph. These Mat Sallehs really do love their pearly whites, don’t they?

Oh-kay then. I’m happy with my pearly whites as of now. Will take extra care to brush in circles, floss AND gurgle with Listerine. Now if only this determination lasts for a loong time.

Cambridge Trip

July 2, 2007

Went on a day trip to Cambridge today. The bus left our campus at around 9 a.m. and a good two hours later, we were breathing the fresh Cambridge air. Compared to my place where you can find many Muslims (bersepah gitu), you hardly find one there. I bet there must be loads of Muslim students around, but throughout my stroll, I only caught a glimpse of letsee.. one greeting her friend who rode the bus with us, one riding a bicycle, one at McDonald’s, another two at McDonald’s as we were leaving.. That’s it. Maybe the rest were busy studying in their dorms, after all, it is exam time. Not many colleges were open for visitors at this time, so most of my pictures were taken from between the gates.

The University is made up of 31 colleges with the oldest founded in 1284 (gosh, no hantu ke if you stay there?). In fact, I can say that half the city is the university. The buildings are old, yet very well-kept. The whole city breathes of history, with many old buildings and some still in its original Tudor style. It really shows how proud they are of their past, taking loads of effort to preserve their history. That reminds me of home. We (still) have a lot of old buildings around but somehow, I dunno, the buildings don’t look old. Perhaps due to too much paint job or ‘modernisation’. Some aren’t that lucky and knocked down. I think we should maintain them to its most original state, lest our younger generations won’t know of our historical background. But that’s just me.

The University colleges really rake in money from tourists all around the world who’d stop at nothing to photograph the rooms or peek at their ‘lives’. What more if they’re like me. I have always wondered how it’d be like to study at such an esteemed place. No doubt that their historical backdrop is Christianity-laden (hear all the names of its Colleges), but you go there to take advantage of its excellence in academia, not immerse yourself too much in their beliefs and forgo your own. The name itself is enough to send me shivers. Good shivers, of course. I have high admirations for those studying there (and Oxford, LSE and Ivy League Universities too). As much as I’d like to think that I’m smart, I’m in no way Cambridge material. So setting foot on their College grounds is the closest I get to feeling the Cambridge aura. A naughty thought did occur to me to camouflage myself as one of the students and walk into the Colleges. I mean, we are students, and we do look young enough to be one of them. No one would notice. But the thought just remained a thought. I may be full of admiration but I ain’t crazy yet. Hehe.

I went punting too. It was fun! I didn’t punt myself, of course, for fear of getting stuck in between the rocks and hanging to dear life on the pole. Can you picture that? My friend and I joined another group of tourists and apart from taking pictures/videos, we enjoyed listening to our punter’s (uh, don’t know if the word exists) description of every College that we pass. He looked like a Sunnies model, only to know that he’s a second year Psychology student. According to him, a lot of Cambridge students punt around for tourists to earn extra income during summer. As we passed this particular ‘Mathematical Bridge‘, I remembered hubby. He’s so into math and Physics (nerd alert) and I know he must find it interesting.

Oh yeah, guess who else I saw at Cambridge? Professor Stephen Hawking! I didn’t notice it was him at first (how blur could I be? Who else would ride that special chair with monitor??) maybe ‘cos there were so many other nice things to see. But when one of his assistants fell in front of me -she tripped and splatted on the stone ground- I took notice. Didn’t occur to me to say hi. I immediately took out Black K and snapped him. Hehe.. Sure hubby jeles. That’s his idol. I remembered how he used to story me with that ‘Brief History of Time‘.. zzzzz… Yeah, that was part our courtship. Scary stuffs.

My regret would be not buying a Cambridge University t-shirt. Hehe, the superficial me wants to shout to the world that I’ve been there.

Now back in my room blogging about my trip, I reflected on my own university, how beautiful it is in its own splendour and how prestigious it is in its own right. Think I’ll get my Uni t-shirt first before anything.